Have you ever notice how everyone is defined a certain way? If you change your hair, everyone asks, “Why?” If you change your clothing style, they ask, “Why?” You change cologne / fragrence, and people ask, “Why?”
But of course, no one asks “Why?” without having some underlying belief as to why you are changing. You change clothing styles because of some mid-life crisis, or maybe you change because you’re trying to impress someone. But at the end of the day, the gossip chain has a whole set of reasons as to why you are doing what you are doing.
And I guess this bothers me. Why can’t someone change their “style” without everyone reading into it. I do understand that most things in life have an underlying cause, but I’m not really sure why everyone has to comment about it. The external observer has no real insight into the situation and has nothing interesting or noteworthy to add.
They only thing they add is their unfounded opinion and gossipy overtones. And who needs to hear that?